You ever just fall in love with someone who doesn’t love you back? They become so important to you but it seems like they couldn’t care less about you? It truly sucks. Getting over a relationship is one thing, but getting over someone who doesn’t feel the same way about you hurts more in my opinion. When they start leave you on read, or they don’t even open the message….it’s like a stabbing pain in your heart. It’s like you know they just want to be friends so you try to be the best friend you can be to them, and then they hardly acknowledge your existence. It’s not even like I can give them the same energy back because it’s impossible. No matter how badly I’m treated I could never treat anyone the same way…..
God I hate having feelings for someone who doesn’t seem to feel the same way. Shit hurts deep inside. This is what I get for letting my walls down. sometimes I feel like I deserve this torture…
umm i need reassurance that my presence is wanted but i can’t ask for reassurance because that’s really Embarrassing and it wouldn’t feel genuine if i asked for it
It sucks having feelings for someone who doesn’t seem to feel the same way. Telling them you like them a lot only to have them not say yes or no to feeling the same way. Now I’m just sitting here trying to not cross any boundaries while still having feelings is difficult. Like I wanna just tell you how beautiful and wonderful you are but I also don’t want to overstep since you aren’t sure you want a relationship. In a situation like this though, you have to respect their feelings because that’s what matters. It just sucks.
you should never date someone for the sake of dating someone. you should be good friends, if not best friends with your partner. if you cant go to your partner for personal advice, if youre afraid to call your partner out on something, if you cant laugh and have fun with your partner, or if your conversations are only ever performative affection, you don’t have a good relationship
“if your conversations are only ever performative affection” woah my bones grew more bones and shook
dont ask me for relationship advice because i will always just tell you to break up w/ them and throw their shit in a dumpster because i do not understand the concept of allowing anyone to treat you poorly this is a zero tolerance zone
